good morning world the song should wake you up
this is about relationships. i suck real bad at it so tell me if i'm wrong.
most of the time people say the most important thing in a relationship is trust. to me that's just fuckin bollocks. you say trust because you want your partner to trust you in whatever you do when he or she is no around, like go out with a friend from the opposite sex. you don't want your boy/girlfriend to have doubts in whatever you're doing.
so in my stupid opinion, loyalty is more important than trust. you can give your partner all your trust in the world, like great eastern life insurance, but if both parties aren't loyal, what's the point?
the point i'm trying to make here is i'm just really bad when it comes to relationships. the proof is right above.
posted by Mud at 10:26 AM
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That also depends. For if A is loyal to B, but is better off with C, then A and C would never meet each other.
Trust is just a conjugated version of "truth". And "truth" encompasses being true, a.k.a. loyalty.
omg no wonder you're in NUS.
what the hell is conjugated??
at least i know what encompasses is. and i learnt it from a medicine student.
There's no such thing as most impt thing really. i used to think it's honesty.
but after a while, i realised there is an array of 'impt' things to work in a relationship.
let me not ramble on.
but there's no such thing as being 'bad' in a relationship.
Who defines 'bad' anyway? or 'good' for that matter?
We all slowly [slowly but surely] learn the combination of 'impt' things that will make a relationship happen.[which differs in any kind of rship] =))
Lydia
Ps: hahaha. just because im leaning ever so slightly on the emo side doesnt mean you can back out from our date. =PPPP
Conjugated is something like changed lah. Like the pure form of a verb, for example, is "to be". Conjugated forms are "am, is, are".
why dont we use the word "understand"? we understand each other. if A is not LOYAL to B, and B does not know why A cant be loyal. then they do not understand each other. if B TRUST A to behave, but we all know A wont behave, means B mati2 dont want to understand whats going on in the surrounding, meaning, they dont understand each other.
for now, UNDERSTAND what im trying to say.
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